Famous Wedding Vows
You’re getting hitched! Congratulations!
Yep, you found someone special and love each other more than anything else. You’re about to get married and looking for help, stimulus or anything that could help you write the best wedding vows for your significant other.
What ‘should’ my wedding vows sound like, how long should they be, and what should I say are some of the most frequently asked questions I get as a celebrant. Well, fear not! Here is a compilation of some of the most beautiful, iconic, and memorable vows from movies, TV shows and books to help you out.
Let’s dive in and get some inspiration from pop culture.
The Fault in Our Stars’
“I’m in love with you, and I’m not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things. I’m in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we’re all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labour has been returned to dust and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we’ll ever have, and I am in love with you.” – Augustus Waters
The first quote is a tear-jerker from the movie “The Fault in Our Stars”.
It’s a declaration of love in the most heartfelt way possible. If you want to passionately express your love to your partner, then these lines from Augustus Waters should definitely be incorporated or referred to in your vows. Remember, simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. Nothing says the longer they are, the better they are regarding wedding vows.
Grey’s Anatomy
“You are everything I never knew I always wanted.” – Alex Karev
The final pick to analyse in depth comes from a medical drama TV show, “Grey’s Anatomy”. This line from Alex is simple and sweet while not being too over-the-top.
It’s a line that tells your partner that you didn’t know what was missing in your life until you met them; they are the missing piece. And that’s exactly why the two of you are standing up in front of all your friends and family at your wedding.
Keep reading for more little snippets from literacy sources.
‘Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows’
“You said to us once before, said Hermione quietly, ‘that there was time to turn back if we wanted to. We’ve had time, haven’t we?’ “ – Harry Potter.
This comes from a favourite book of all time, “Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows”.
This quote is short but packs quite a punch. It reminds your partner that you’re in this together and have come a long way, just like Harry, Ron and Hermione.
This vow does not necessarily have to be taken in the typical romantic way you may think of vows; vows can be anything you want. It’s more of a vow to stick together through thick and thin, for better or worse.
‘Sense and Sensibility’ by Jane Austen
In this classic novel by Jane Austen, Edward Ferrars declares his love and commitment to Elinor Dashwood with a heartfelt vow:
Edward Ferrars: “I come here with no expectations, only to profess, now that I am at liberty to do so, that my heart is and always will be… yours.”
‘Pride and Prejudice’ by Jane Austen
Another gem from the classic literature world, Fitzwilliam Darcy’s vow to Elizabeth Bennet in “Pride and Prejudice” remains etched in romantic memory:
Fitzwilliam Darcy: “In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.”
‘Game of Thrones’ by George R.R. Martin (TV adaptation)
While the world of Westeros may be treacherous, it witnessed a heartfelt vow between Jon Snow and Ygritte that resonated with audiences:
Ygritte: “You know nothing, Jon Snow. But I love you, and that’s all I need to know.”
The Notebook
“I promise to love you always, to laugh with you always, to cry with you always, to cherish you always, to respect you always, to honour you always.” – Noah to Allie
This heartfelt vow encapsulates the enduring nature of love, accentuating the importance of commitment, support, and respect in a marriage.
The Wedding Singer
“I promise always to be there for you, to listen to you, to love you unconditionally, and always to make you smile.” – Adam Sandler to Drew Barrymore.
This simple yet powerful vow highlights the core values of a strong and loving relationship: unwavering support, empathy, and joy. And, of course, the words from the song, ‘I Will Grow Old You’, sung by Adam Sandler, also proves a great reading in a wedding ceremony.
Bridget Jones’s Diary
“I promise to never stop courting you. I promise to find you attractive for the rest of my life.
I promise to make you laugh every day. I promise to listen to you, to cherish you, and to protect you.”
– Mark Darcy to Bridget Jones.
This modern and romantic vow highlights the importance of constant effort, humour, and unwavering support in a marriage.
You guys have got this!
And now for some other great one-liners:
“I vow to love you even when you’re being a total goofball, just like in our favourite rom-coms.” – Mark Darcy in Bridget Jones’s Diary.
“I promise to always be your partner in crime, like Bonnie and Clyde, minus the crime part.” – Jesse in Before Sunset.
“I pledge to be your rock, your Han Solo, always ready to swoop in and save the day.” – Mia Thermopolis in The Princess Diaries 2: Royal Engagement.
“I vow to love you more than Chandler loves sarcasm and Joey loves pizza, combined!” – Monica Geller in Friends.
“I promise to be your Mr. Darcy, sweeping you off your feet with my awkward charm.” – Mark in Love Actually.
“I swear to be your superhero, like Iron Man, but without the ego… most of the time.” – Tony Stark in The Avengers.
“I promise to love you unconditionally, even when you’re acting like a mad hatter.” – Alice in Alice in Wonderland.
“I vow to be your Jack to your Rose, even if we can both fit on the door!” – Jack Dawson in Titanic.
“I promise to be your Luke Skywalker, guiding you through the galaxy of love.” – Luke Danes in Gilmore Girls.
“You had me at hello.” – Jerry Maguire to Dorothy Boyd in Jerry Maguire. While not a traditional wedding vow, this iconic line has become synonymous with instant love and connection.
“I pledge to be your Ron Weasley, always by your side, even when facing the biggest challenges.” – Ron Weasley in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows.
There you have it!
Some iconic and heart-warming vows that could inspire you to write the best wedding vows for your marriage partner.
Note that vows do not need to be long to have an effect. You could use some of these as inspiration or incorporate them as a quote. These vows should help you realise that marriage is about loving, supporting, and fulfilling each other and sharing your thoughts with your soon-to-be wedded partner.
When writing those vows, don’t be afraid to be your silly, quirky, comical, serious, literary, or authentic self. Let your personality shine. Have a blast sharing your wedding vows and celebrating!
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